tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-526040603426362255.post1363134295643911701..comments2011-07-21T21:41:35.158-07:00Comments on CEO Struggles: Why do you have weak relationships? It could be that you talk too much and listen too little!Randy P. Seitzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07547450217039574094noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-526040603426362255.post-8561158653442256392010-07-30T17:40:55.160-07:002010-07-30T17:40:55.160-07:00Randy, thank you for these great bits of common se...Randy, thank you for these great bits of common sense. I think that most of us would tell you these are the keys to better communication, yet we forget to slow down and think about how we ourselves are employing them. If we make a conscious effort while we're talking with people to think about how we're communicating and ask ourselves whether we're employing these simple ideas, then we might realize how often we forget to put them into action.<br /><br />I'd like to add emphasis to the idea that people are so interested in talking that they often forget to put the focus on the person they're speaking with. It seems common sense to me that if I enjoy so much telling you about me, that you might just as well enjoy talking with me about you. Listen well, but dont forget to ask good questions that express interest in the person your speaking with and the things that are important to them.<br /><br />SteveAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01204971486017460096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-526040603426362255.post-15505605358167897412009-10-17T17:54:20.082-07:002009-10-17T17:54:20.082-07:00Great points Randy.
Well,from a coach s point of v...Great points Randy.<br />Well,from a coach s point of view what I read between(the lines... your words)is that you are open minded,caring and you allow yourself to be vulnerable. There's no better atmosphere for growth and success in any area be that business or personal relationships.Also a great way to create the right environment for growth and success is to ask strategic questions and have people give themselves the answers.Because whatever answers people give themselves, will be in resonance with their own beliefs, paradigms/way of thinking and they are more likely to accept or go along with any changes you might want to make(the changes will be lasting).<br />You are so right about body language, expressions,movements,tone.<br /><br />When keeping a calm people pick up the vibration,the energy your body is in and they will adjust theirs to yours.<br />Especially in the last 3 years have been applying extra amount of kindness in every area (my business as well as my personal life) and nobody has the power to respond in a bad way repeatedly to kindness,soon even the worst attitude will respond in a positive way to kindness.<br />By understanding how the human Mind works we can get great results in any circumstance.<br />LorenaProsperityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01835180659633847775noreply@blogger.com